John Gray

  • Living Separate Lives

    We can no more live our lives separate from each other and our source than a droplet of water can exist separate from a river or ocean. Yet we humans behave as if we are all alone and unconnected with each other. We act as if it is us against them, that our beliefs are better than

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  • Your Comments Please

    Many of our blog readers have suggested that they would like more information on particular topics. As you will appreciate blogging does take time (and as they say time is money) and even though we have a passion for providing as much information as we can free of charge I would like to hear what

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  • Fat Valley of Pain

    The title to this article refers to that part of our cellular memory and remnant energy that forms what is known as the “pain body”. This is where we have subconsciously stored away from sight deep within us our memory and interpretations of all those events that we experienced which we have classified as bad and which

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  • Straight from the Heart

    The levels of stress we experience in our lives on a daily basis are extremely high and increasing. We struggle to maintain our equilibrium in this technologically advanced and fast paced world we live in. We have historically been conditioned to deal with what life throws at us through sensory and mental processes only. The

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  • The Holy Ground

    We all spend far too much time obsessing about what happened in the past or what may happen in the future. These are ego based states which prevent us from living in the present moment or the Holy Ground. The Holy Ground is as author Marriane Williamson states where “eternity meets linear time”. Neither the past nor the

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  • Madness in the Malls!

    A potent mix for a cocktail of violence – take one unstable and dysfunctional person, add unrestricted access to firearms, mix slowly then add a political rally and a pinch of attention seeking and shake vigorously until turns blood red. When are politicians and lobbyists alike ever going to learn. The right to bare arms

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  • Why are our young people killing themselves?

    New Zealand has one of the worst teenage suicide rates in the OECD (15 per 100,000). As a father of three teenage children I find this statistic staggering! For a country which prides itself on being “God’s Own” there seems to be a systemic failure on the part of our education system and social agencies.

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  • Creative Intelligence

    This is not the sort of intelligence that our education systems are programmed to develop in our young people. Our education systems were historically designed around the needs of society during the Industrial Revolution. That was to produce a  cheap/skilled and semi-literate labour force. From this perspective not much seems to have changed (with languages and Maths

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  • Too Many Spirits and Not Enough Spirit!

    Well the festive season is upon us again! We are again confronted by the usual madness that seems to infect Christian based societies this time of year. Let’s eat, drink, spend and be merry as we eagerly anticipate the arrival of that large, red cheeked gentleman from the North Pole dressed in that hard to miss red suit and

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  • It’s a Kind of Magic!

    While those very words have been immortalised in song by the late great Freddy Mercury we can also relate them to something far more directly personal to all of us. We live our lives as master magicians in our own magic show. We consistently manage to pull the rabbit out of the hat and blindly convince

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