Vince Cabrera
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TRIGGER POINTS
The observation I would make about what gets people to make important changes in their lives is that things have to reach a pressure point (“trigger point”) before there is enough leverage to spark the change. So why can’t we often get on the front foot and be proactive with the change that we know
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THE JOURNEY
You will have often heard the saying “It’s more about the journey than the destination”. In most of our lives we experience twists and turns, the expected and the unexpected. We make many intentional decisions expecting certain results and getting them or ending up with something else. We delay decisions and life has a habit
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TIMES ARE A CHANGING
This article is a follow up of sorts to my article on “Trigger Points”. As I see it life has an inbuilt imperative for growth. At a civilization level many centuries of growth are called evolution. This growth is usually preceded by some form of societal revolution which can be either gradual or fast depending
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BREAKTHROUGH MOMENTS
SO how do you intentionally make an important change in your life, one that you know without a doubt will be a breakthrough moment? The first step is to develop a supportive psychology. Our physiology affects our psychology. For example, if we are in a weak or slumped physical state then we won’t see opportunities
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HAVING NO REGRETS
How much of our lives do we spend trying to make other people happy? These may include family, wives, husbands, partners, friends, employers, fellow work mates and so on. Not to state the obvious though, trying to make sure others are happy is an impossible task. At the end of the day everyone is responsible
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THE SECRET TO BETTER AGEING
As we get older, we can mentally and physiologically start to slow down. This can create a perception that as we age, we can no longer be active participants in and contribute as much to our families, societies and local communities. Many rest homes and villages are full of older people who have just accepted
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DON’T GET TOO COMFORTABLE
In their lives most people operate within their current set point or live within their comfort zones. Yet to get to their current comfort zones they have had to move beyond previous set points or comfort zones. However, with every new level there is always a new devil! This can be the obstacle that stops
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SHINE ON YOU CRAZY DIAMOND
We are all unique. Never dim your glow or uniqueness for anyone. As the words of that immortal song ring out “Shine on you crazy diamond”! No one can see life through your prescription lenses! Have you ever tried to borrow some one’s glasses and then realise that you can’t see a damn thing through
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Four Steps to Living a Life You Love
Over the next few articles I will be discussing what I have found to be an invaluable process for authentic and powerful living. Try it out and watch what happens in your own life! The following is the third article in this series. Step Three When we have recovered our authentic power and we no
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Don’t get boxed in!
Have you ever noticed how much of our lives are impacted by boxes? Consider this: we live in separate countries within rigid borders we live in box-like houses we travel in box-like vehicles we work in box-like buildings we spend alot of our time watching a tv box we find it challenging to think outside